One day a long while ago Philip Larkin dropped a remark in passing about the difficulties of his current private life. He made it in the form of a jokey generalisation about the impossibility of relations between men and women, and added that the women ought really to marry each other, but that would be wrong, wouldn't it? I forgot the remark for over thirty years until I bumped into it as an observation by one of the characters in Kingsley Amis's latest novel, Difficulties with girls. It may not have been the same remark, of course: but since Amis was Larkin's close friend, and Larkin a great letter-writer, and since the words on the page served suddenly to bring back a long-past occasion, it seems possible that a series of sentences has survived.

LRB 10 November 1988 | PDF Download